There are different categories of people in Indian society.
These categories I am talking about have got nothing to do with categories or
groups that fall under the head - sociological but it is purely psychological.
Sociological/Social groups are for example caste groups, religious groups and
others. At least arguments or debates with such groups will be blunt and clear
as the one who argues with them knows in advance what their stand is on a
specific subject, and the possibility of obfuscation is minimal or none.
I shall explain these groups/categories in terms which we
can easily understand and relate.
Category 1: Those
who say that India is a pathetic country. Every invader who came here for
pillage & plunder has helped us improve from being a highly pathetic society
to a less pathetic one. Let’s see some clichés which people use who fall under
this category.
- Thank god, Greeks invaded and enslaved us. Because of which we have learnt logic. Otherwise we would have been stupid.
- You know, if Mughals did not invade us we would have never learnt how to make Chicken Tikka & Kebab. So I salute Mughals.
- Thanks to Brits, we now have post offices, Railways, bridges & high-rise buildings. Most importantly they taught us English along with morals and a great religion through missionaries. Otherwise we would have been a bunch of idiots worshipping rocks, monkeys and idols. Thanks to Lord, they have given us Jesus.
Category 2: Those
who say that India is a best country in the world, and there is nothing wrong
here and they say India is shining. There will be no need for any clichés
because for them nothing is wrong with our society. These people will normally
will hold their allegiance to a political party. For example, when BJP is in
power, if you speak to a hard core BJP supporter he will say that “India is
shining” and there is nothing wrong with India because all is well. When
Congress is in power if you talk to a hard core congress party supporter, he
will say that India has become a super power and all other parties are
communal, we are the only secular party in India etc.,
Category 3:
Though I am tempted to call this category as neutral, rational and objective, but
they are not completely rational. Because Humans will never be completely rational.
There is nothing called as rationality, but bounded rationality, says Herbert
Simon, Nobel Prize winning Economist. Read his paper here to understand as to what is Bounded Rationality. So, though in a way people who
fall in this category are relatively better than the two categories mentioned
above, they are not completely neutral. Because they will have a soft corner to
a particular party or ideology, even though they don’t agree with them
completely. Let’s take my example I have a soft corner for BJP at the moment
when compared to the positions of other parties on subjects like national
security etc., I go along with BJP but not on everything, but still have a soft
corner. If not on all the occasions most of the times discussions will be
driven by facts rather than by unsubstantiated opinions & obscurantism.
In this occasion I will be my own judge and say that I fall
under this category3. Because for most
of the opinions I rely on facts. If I say that both LTTE & Sri Lankan establishment
are equally responsible for the sufferings of Tamils, I will cite at least few
facts to support my argument, instead of making claims out of my hat. If a
person who falls under the category1 have to speak on this issue, he will blame
either Sri Lanka or LTTE as fully responsible with least regard to facts but
not both. LTTE sympathizer might just say that Prabhakaran was a freedom
fighter notwithstanding the atrocities for which he was responsible, and a
Srilankan supporter would just dismiss him as a terrorist. Truth may be in
between? So, I claim that I fall under category3. Jury is out.
In my opinion we’ll be tempted to debate with people who
fall under category1, because we fall in to the trap as we feel that they are
sane and at first impression appear to be category3, but actually you can
reason it out with category2 not with category1.
Let’s me quote few types of people who fall under category1.
Most of the people who have secured a good social status through reservation,
yes I am talking about a group which was institutionally oppressed i.e., Scheduled
Caste/Scheduled Tribe group. For our discussion here I am referring only to
those who fall under the definition of category1, not all.
The reason for undertaking this painful exercise to explain
the categories is to explain and share my experience of a conversation I have
had with a person who falls under category1. Yes, the type who says that we are
better off today only because of British. What appalled me was his reluctance
to accept facts contrary to his beliefs and passes judgment only based on his
experience. I sympathize for the sufferings he might have undergone, but his
personal suffering is not enough to pass a judgement on a whole society which is
saner, civil and forward looking, at least on a relative basis.
Let me briefly explain the profile of the person with whom I
have had such a conversation. He is a Professor and Head of the department in a
reputed university and claims to be teaching for the past 30 years or more. He
is about to retire say in a year. An SC/ST who reached where he is now partly because
of the policy of reservation or quota system. He is bustling with his prejudice
towards Caste Brahmins. Of course he claims to be a victim of caste Brahmin
bigotry. Normally he does not take pride in anything good about in India, even on
our achievements, past & present. Everything that has gone wrong with this
country he sees it through the prism of Caste Brahmins oppressing SC/ST groups.
The conversation started with his prejudicial statements
that in those days Brahmins would pour melted copper in the ears of Dalits if
they dared to study or educate themselves. For a very long time I have tried to
find an evidence on this claim as this was not the first time I have heard such
a statement, but I could not find any convincing evidence so far. Even if we
have to agree with that statement for a moment, is this what India all about?
Without answering that question directly, I brought up the issue
regarding the documentary made by BBC on 2012 Delhi gang rape case and the innuendos
suggested in that documentary. I told him that, while rapes are bad and it
happens in India too but neither all men are rapists or ours is a society of
rapists as suggested by that documentary and tried to convince him that his
example was also something like that. And apprised him with facts that the
incidence of rape is much higher in western countries when compared to India.
As per the official figures, every 25 seconds one woman is sexually harassed in
US and in every 6 minutes one woman is sexually harassed in UK, by that I don’t
mean that we are better off. Even if it is going to be one rape, we are ashamed
of it as a society. But that one rape does not define our identity.
I further added that I have completely agreed with him on the
question of discrimination of Dalits primarily by caste Brahmins and conversation
is sealed as we have no differences on this subject.
But he was not convinced and went on and said that it is
only because of British we are here not otherwise. Then came his clichés which
I have explained in the introduction about the people who fall under category
will normally use, that he is thankful to British for railways and buildings etc.,
I replied that I disagree with him on this and argued that
he should read and understand the theories of Brain and Economic drain. The
whole budget of England was based on the resources looted from India, such was
the amount of limitless resources she had. Not long ago during Vijayanagara
Empire Rayala seema (plains of stones) in Andhra Pradesh was called as
Rathanala Seema (plains of diamond). Every piece of visible wealth was taken
away from here. In 2000 years of recorded history (read Madison project) India
was an economic power house for 17 centuries in a straight contributing towards
nearly 30 % of global GDP consistently, only as a result of systematic exploitation
of British we came down to 1% at the start of 20th century. Without
British we could have been better off. Though the Chinese were colonized by the
British the Chinese never say that they are grateful to their colonizers. Why
is it in India we have people praise British for what they have done? The
answer is we are psychologically still slaves and we need to break these chains
of slavery.
By now he is completely lost his posture and shot back that
in China there was no caste oppression. I was getting bored by now, as he
clearly lacked intellectual depth in his argument and completely handicapped by
his casual opinions which is the result of hearsay & anecdotal evidence.
I humbly retorted “Sire, do you know nearly 33 million innocent
people were killed in China during the Cultural Revolution! Doesn't that count
as oppression to you? He replied, “No that is different”.
I don’t want to elaborate here on every thing we have
discussed but only few important ones. Few things he said about Christian
missionaries and their assistance to us. He declared that we are stone
worshippers and not wise people etc and Christian Missionaries have helped us. I
replied that if a religion or ideology has to be evaluated and a judgement needs
to be passed we need to consider its history. A woman was not even treated as
human being but slave and how the church persecuted scientists is an open
secret, some were burnt alive just because they went against church, and you
should really have credentials to preach. But in India Science & religion
complimented each other, they were never at war with. Ours is an advanced thought
process, but we have our own pitfalls and we agree that. Hence we don’t go to Saudi
Arabia or Europe and say that Islam & Christianity is non-sense, your gods
are false gods, why don’t you accept ours? But every other murderous crook who
came here from these countries told us exactly that.
Then came his sexist remark, women in Europe are white and
beautiful and that is why they wanted to keep them as slaves and women here may
not be that beautiful. That is what he implied. Already it has been two hours since
the start of this conversation with him. Only after that sexist remark I have
decided that I might be wasting my time and offered him for a full day
discussion on another day so that I can prove him wrong. He was not ready for
that, as he said that he does not have a full day. He is nearly 55 or 60 years
old and a Head of a Department in a university, and his ego is badly hurt. In
all these hours I have not heard one single sane argument. In addition to the arguments
I have explained in this write-up I have quoted many other examples to prove my
points, but not discussed here all of them for the sake of time and space.
I have told him that it is certainly true that caste Brahmins
have discriminated Dalits, but that should not become the only reason for him
to hate India and I also said that “I disagree with your theory that only
because of alien invaders we are better off”. After that we have said goodbye to each other,
as the discussion was reaching nowhere.
In conclusion all I would like to say is, that it is tough to
help people who fall under the Category1
to come out of their mental prisons in which they are living right now, but it
is not entirely impossible, and we should not stop trying. I have had positive
results in the past. Just that this time I was stuck with a rigid old bird.